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Wife doesn’t do housework for 3 years, cold attitude

Xia Bin was born and raised in a poor rural area in Shenzhen, China. His father was a construction worker, his mother worked in a textile factory. Xia Bin had two younger brothers and one younger sister. When he was 12 years old, his father suddenly passed away, leaving his mother to raise three children alone. As the eldest brother in the family, Xia Bin was very diligent and hardworking. In addition to going to school, he also helped his mother cook and take care of his younger siblings.

After graduating from high school, Ha Ban went to work as a worker at a factory in his hometown, then transferred to the technical department. Thanks to his diligence and thrift, Ha Ban also had a stable income, renting a small house to have a place to live. However, at the age of 28, Ha Ban still did not have a love life, because he lived quite a closed life and was also afraid of his own conditions.

Until one day, Ha Ban attended a company party. He happened to be seated at the same table as Luu Phan Phan – the company’s financial officer. Unlike Ha Ban, Luu Phan Phan had gone through a failed marriage and had been raising her young daughter alone for many years.

Ha Ban still feels heartbroken when he remembers his story.

However, Ha Ban quickly fell in love with this single mother. He didn’t care about Luu Phan Phan’s circumstances and was very attentive to her, even buying her daughter gifts. And then, after only half a year of getting to know each other, the two got married and started a new family.

However, everything suddenly “turned upside down” from here. Liu Phan Phan quit her job right after getting married because she “wanted to focus on taking care of her family”. However, even Ha Ban could not understand what his wife meant by family, only seeing her all day looking at her phone, shopping or going to cafes with friends.

“Ever since I married her, I wake up early every morning, hurry to prepare breakfast, and then rush to work. After a busy day at work, I immediately return home and go into the kitchen to prepare dinner, wash dishes, mop the floor, and clean the room… Even on the days I was sick, she never helped me with housework ,” Ha Ban shared.

Not stopping there, he said he always felt abandoned, he had a one-sided love for his wife after marriage because she had never talked seriously to him, never given him gifts or traveled together,… On the contrary, Ha Ban was always the one who did everything, prepared gifts for his wife on holidays. Even when going out, Luu Phan Phan also acted distant, even brushed it off if her husband intended to hold her hand.

Two years passed, and when Xia Bin was feeling extremely tired of this relationship and was about to give up, Liu Fan Fan announced that she was pregnant. “I was so happy! I thought that my efforts had finally paid off. I also thought that she would change her personality after getting pregnant,” Xia Bin shared.

However, nothing changed except that Xia Bin was 5-10 times busier than before. Liu Pan Phan still didn’t do any housework, this time she didn’t even bother to wash a cup after drinking. Xia Bin was naturally gentle, so she tried to endure it. In addition to the family’s living expenses, when Liu Pan Phan was pregnant, Xia Bin also sent his wife a small amount of money every month and used it as a snack.

Taking the child to the hospital for a DNA test, the husband was shocked to discover the heartbreaking truth.

Just like that, nine months and ten days passed, and Xia Bin happily welcomed her first little princess. After giving birth, Xia Bin became even lazier. “It’s been three years since we got married and she hasn’t done any housework, and I’ve been taking care of both children. This made me start to suspect. Does she have someone else outside? Especially when the neighbor often came to visit and told me something like this: ‘The child doesn’t look like anyone else in the family,’” Xia Bin added.

Then, he decided to take his child to the hospital for a DNA test. “ I was stunned, I wanted to cry right there when I received the results, the child was not mine. The paper clearly stated: There is no blood relationship between father and child. It turned out that Phan Phan, not only did she not do housework but also lied to me,” Ha Ban still had tears in her eyes when she recalled.

However, when he brought the test results home to ask his wife, Ha Ban only received a contemptuous smile from her and a cold reply: “I told you from the beginning, I don’t love anyone, I only got married to have support. The child was just a small mistake, why are you making such a fuss?”

After that, Liu Phan Phan packed her luggage without saying a word, and left home with her two children.

“She didn’t give any explanation, and it seemed like there was no way to save the marriage. I decided to divorce, things had gone beyond my tolerance,” Ha Bin recalled.

However, when she heard Xia Bin asking for a divorce, Liu Pan Phan immediately changed her attitude. She became sweet again, even knelt down to apologize, promising that she would change, do housework, and go to work to earn money to support the children. Xia Bin did not accept it, saying that he did not see his wife’s sincerity, all of Liu Pan Phan’s efforts were just to find someone to rely on, not wanting to be abandoned.

Liu Phan Phan (face covered) was very cruel even though he was the one at fault.

The post attracted a lot of interaction from netizens, many comments supported Ha Ban’s behavior. However, they also advised him not to be too sad and desperate and lose love and marriage . “I see him as a good guy, I hope he finds his other half in the future, let’s just consider the past as a lesson”, a netizen commented.